a little family history so you can better understand

so I am the baby of 5. Military family. Mom married first husband at age 16ish because her mother made her so she says and she hated him....so she said...oldest brother born then the divorced she married again soon after...loved and worshipped him he beat her or was mean which ever story we are going with on any given day wham divorce then met my dad and had sister one and two then many many years later me....all of us were born in or conceived over seas girls all in Germany. Mom and dad liked to party and drink and smoke cigs and collect the coupons and green stamps and dad actually got stuff from the catelogs with these things..it seems to have been a mission to smoke a crap load of smokes just to get these coupons.....thus begins the scarring of my siblings child hood or so they say.....lol